2025年2月27日 星期四

《看我今天怎麼說》- 表達自由的真諦

我一向喜歡看鍾雪瑩演的戲。殺出個黃昏、正義迴廊、填詞L⋯我喜歡那種看得舒服自然的演技。也基於金馬獎這個銜頭的加持,我對這套《看我今天怎麼說》是可滿有期待。

《看我今天怎麼說》- 戲名改得好,說的就是用眼看的「對話」。

這套戲整體來說沒有教人失望,個人對它的喜愛比破地獄爸爸更有點過之而無不及。

首先我欣賞故事的切入點。就我個人而言,聽障人士(聾人)原本就是一整個群體,但這個故事帶出的是聽障人士間對「融入社會」的不同看法。葉子信(游學修飾)是一個以聾人為榮,以手語為母語的青年(所以WhatsApp發訊的時候,「承諾」打錯了「成諾」,也許是編劇要表達出子信不能用語音輸入又讀書不成的背景)。方素恩(鍾雪瑩飾)是一個自小用人工耳蝸,不懂用手語以力求融入社會的人。吳昊倫Alan (吳祉昊飾)則是植入了人工耳蝸,但又不忘與子信用手語約定的「中間派」。在這個不同理念交錯下的劇情,不但令故事更有追看性,也令觀眾更容易明白聽障人士的感受。

另一個個人很欣賞的地方,便是他用了不同的場景去解釋了一些聽障人所遇到的實況。

一開首老師訓話子信與Alan 的一段,用一個十分清晰的手法發出了故事的背景 - 聽力正常的社會大眾嘗試為聽障人士型造出一個「成為不需用手語也能表達的正常人」的期望。而素恩也是在社會(包括其母親)這樣的預期下以「近似正常」的姿態下成長,她亦取得了學業上的成功。

素恩畢業的一幕亦有很深刻的描寫。素恩與同學的對話中,帶出了她在融入社會上的一點「成功」,成績優異,成就亦被同學肯定。但這一幕亦帶出了人工耳蝸的技術限制,在接收與表達上也有不為人知的缺陷。導演好好利用了背景音效,突顯出只有聽障人士獨個兒了解的溝通困難與孤獨。

個人感受最深刻的一幕,是素恩在大公司工作的那一段。原本我以為編者想借這段描述聽障人士那種受人歧視孤立的慘況。但故事中她的上司Gordon, Margaret 以及Katherine,無論是任何級別的人對她也是格外開恩,謙恭有禮,表達了一種大眾對聽障人士那種「硬要達成關愛融入的責任但又懼怕觸碰的偽善」。素恩在辦公室的中間位置呆坐,圍繞着他的是密麻麻各有各忙的同事。這個社會滿以為關心或是施捨便是共融,但卻不經意帶給聽障人士帶來的壓迫感,很實在的一幕。

(個人覺得,在這個講求平權、ESG的世代,大公司硬要聘請特殊人士然後大事表揚,到底在騁請的時候有沒有考慮如何發揮員工本身的長處?是不是真的幫聽障人士融入社會呢?又或者說,怎樣的溝通才算是融入呢?這是一個很值得談及的問題。)

素恩在公司的定位像吉祥物一般,她大可以委曲求全,不用做有人工,但真正渴望融入社會的人不會滿足於這種待遇。

演少年版子信及Alan的兩個小朋友都有極度出色的表現,尤其是子信的兒童版,第一幕那個回頭一笑的神情,跟游學修的神似叫人十分驚。


(通貨膨漲‥‥‥三人樂在手語其中的一幕)

故事雖然以一個頃向寫實。但大量手語的表達,加上以聽障人士第一身的音響特效,這都給觀眾一種很新鮮的視聽感覺。所以故事即使沒有太多笑點,亦沒有飛沙劈石的特技,故事角色在不同階層的生活下遊走的內容有點零碎也好,故事整合起來還是讓觀眾看得十分舒服。

(明報截圖)

就故事的感情線,三人之間的關係也是表達得含蓄。原本素恩由與Alan是由相聚、發展到手拖手的程度,再到Alan懷疑了素恩愛上了子信的離合。個人覺得導演想帶出的重點不是素恩感情上的選擇,更是聾人在溝通方式上 - 人工耳蝸融入社會與手話表達真的自己兩者之間的選擇。

故事的最後,素恩沒有如大眾所望的在大公司找到定位(即使故事有交代了她在各方面的努力嘗試),子信也沒有戲劇性在香港取得一個潛水教練的牌照,

(潛水理論上是一個不用聽說的活動,甚至熟悉手語的子信應該更有優勢。但他卻因為不能聽得不到考牌的機會。電影帶出了這份不為人知的無奈。)

故事帶出了無論聽障人士怎樣融入社會也做不到這種絕對公平的環境,而所謂「平等」亦不是強要不同的人做一樣的事。每個人,應該可公平地選擇自己表達與接收的方式。


(最後補充多一句:為何如此勵志的電影也被列為二A級呢?大概是因為手語禁書,或是游學修的唯一一句對白😅😅😅)

- 《看我今天怎麼說》 - 表達自由的真諦 - 觀後感 - 完 - 95分

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以下是我其他電影觀後分享及主觀得很的評分:



















罪與罰 Crime and Punishment 杜斯妥也夫斯著 - 以思想為戰場的故事

「平凡的人必須聽話,沒有犯法的權利,因為,您要知道,他們是平凡的人。不平凡的人卻有權犯各式各樣的罪,有權任意違法,為非作歹,而這只是因為,他們是不平凡的人。」

路過書店,雙眼總喜歡在一眾翻譯文學小說中遊走。

這本書 - 異常的厚度(621頁)與只得三個大字的封面好像形成了一個「抗衡」— 一種吸引眼球的「抗衡」。出於對文學那份高攀不起的好奇,我跑到圖書館借了這本被認為是「世界文學的最高成就之一」的小說回家。

共621頁 - 篇幅比「傲慢與偏見」多一倍。

罪與罰 Crime and Punishment 杜斯妥也夫斯著 (遠足文化事業股份有限公司)

西方古典文學自己只讀過一丁點但感覺是「難消化的東西」。困難一在於自身對西方歷史知識上的嚴重貧。對西方古代文化、社會環境、生活習慣、節期習俗等都不懂的大前提下,我有時會覺得故事的情節有點難以理解。本書引用了大量法文及來自法國的典故,不得不佩服翻譯者對原文及法國文化背景那份深厚的功力。

但是《罪與罰》一書在這個文化帶來的難度上還額外加插了兩個大挑戰。

額外困難一是角色間那個複雜而極度詳細的精神狀態描述。故事敘述的其實是一個相當簡單的故事。主角拉斯克爾尼科夫是一個無神論者,他為了伸張自己認為的正義,殺死了一個他認為不道德的典當老太婆,以及一個目擊他殺人的女士。

他其中的一句格言:「犯罪是對社會組織的不正常現象的抗議。」罪與罰中他強調的核心理論——若是主要的目的對頭,那麼過壞事也是可以允許的。幹一樁壞事完成百件好事。(557)

主角本認為自己的行為十分合理,因為不平凡的人就是可以有打破規則的理由,只有平凡人才需要跟隨着世俗的規則。但有時候他又很怕的殺人行為被揭發,心中存着很大的恐懼。亦有時候他會思考他的行為是否有罪。故事就是圍繞他的心路歷程、以內心的矛盾及衝擊為主線。

額外困難二就是那冗長而又多變的俄國人名稱。主角名叫羅季昂. 羅曼內奇. 拉斯克爾尼科夫(14個字),書中最常用的名字是拉斯克爾尼科夫,但有時在對話間又會用上了羅季昂。當書中十多個主要角色也是以這樣冗長而有變化的名字敘事的時候。俄國人的名字不是「夫」、便是「奇」作結、女角有幾位即使沒親戚關係的都是叫「諾夫娜」,再加上不同的翻譯版本…..讀者讀起來的時候,也許跟主角的思緒一樣會變得精神錯亂。

故事方面,海量的對白長得有點嚇人。第一章中主角母親寄來的一封信,整整密麻麻地填滿了四頁。我對這種交代故事的方法感到有點吃不消。

此外,作者環境的描寫上也是力求細緻。小至街上的一個醉漢,女主角索尼亞.謝苗諾富娜.馬爾梅拉多娃母親在為丈夫舉辦解穢酒那段的張羅、以至奸角斯維德利蓋諾夫的自殺也細緻敘述得有點過火。只能夠理解這也許是古代文學的基本節奏吧。

這些描述再加上冗長的名字充實着整本書,所以嚴格來說故事性並不是很強。甚至可以說,某些故事橋段是有性難理解的。例如第一章主角和在酒館裏遇到的酒鬼馬爾比拉朵夫,只是閒話家常了幾句變成了摯友的橋段不太有說服力。(是不是古代的西方人都是這樣結交朋友呢?我看來又不是。)亦正亦邪的斯維德利蓋諾夫最後突然良心發現放走了索尼亞再去自盡也有點牽強。這種格格不入的感覺,也許是來自我與上兩個世紀人們的代溝吧?

不過,「世界文學的最高成就之一」的書當然有其過人之處。

個人覺得作者在描寫人物思想方便很特別。性格上的描寫用了很大篇幅,但突顯的不是鮮明的性格,而是那錯綜複雜又善變的思維。主角對自己的價值觀很有自信,但卻又常常帶着恐懼。甚至恐懼得有點懦弱。女主角索尼婭本身既是妓女又是個虔誠的信徒,既有純愛與犧牲精神但同時又以出賣肉體為業。不過,也許是基於這個帶罪身份,令她更有資格去勸主角自首贖罪。

作者對索尼婭的母親 - 卡捷琳娜的描寫令我很深刻,書中形容她是一個愛和平的人。但文章不乏對她時而瘋癲、時而罵人、時而自卑、時而看不起人的舉動。是精神分裂形成的個性?還是個性形成的精神分裂?令人深思。

個人很欣賞本書角色對話時性情上劇烈改變的細膩描寫,拉斯克爾尼科夫與調查員波爾韮里的幾次互動,有時是輕鬆對談、轉眼又演變成互相猜忌,對話幾句後又開始了精神僵持狀態,簡直就是思想推動了整個故事。主角與他妹妹未婚夫盧仁的針鋒相對,有時是謙恭、有時又是單刀直入;有時是相敬如賓、有時又是針鋒相對,這種剎那間的變化交代得比故事合理而又引人入勝。

此外,作為經典文學,書中也不乏精彩絕妙的對白。以下是其中幾句:

「力量是需要的;沒有力量,你什麼也得不到;而力量要靠力量來獲得的…..」(P216)

「胡說是一切動物中只有人才能享受的唯一的特權。」(P228)

「發表自己的不正確的意見——要比轉述別人的一個真理更有意義。在第一種情況下,你才是一個人;而在第二種情況下,你不過是只鸚鵡!」(P229)

「誰知力強精神旺,誰就是他們的統治者。誰膽大妄為,誰就被認為是對的。誰對許多事情抱藐視態度,誰就是立法者。誰比所有的人更膽大妄為,誰就比所有的人更正確!」(P474)

「世界上沒有什麼比直言不諱更難,也沒有什麼比阿諛奉承更容易的了。說真心話時,只要有1%的假音調,立刻就會發生不和諧,麻煩就會隨之而來。如果是阿諛奉承,哪怕從頭至尾所有音調都是虛假的,但還是令人高興的,人聽到了不會不高興;雖然感到肉麻,但到底還是令人高興的。」(P540,我個人很喜歡這一句‥‥‥很實在的人性)

「大家都殺了人,……現在世界上正在流血,從前也常常血流成河……這些人因殺人如麻竟然在卡庇托林舉行加冕,以後又被稱做人類的恩人。」(P588)

「一切事情一旦遭到失敗,看起來都是愚蠢的!」

人這種卑鄙的東西,什麼都會習慣的。

這些句子,所說的涉及了強烈的宗教哲學及人生觀。為冗長的對話加入了不少色彩。

作者筆下的彼得堡,貧窮得可憐、醉酒得荒誕、高傲得冷漠。這個毫無出路的環境是令人灰心的。不過作者也藉著主角好友拉祖米欣那份對朋友的熱情;索尼拉斯克爾尼科夫那份無條件的愛;主角妹妹杜尼雅那份正義與勇敢,令故事多了點溫暖及出路,為最後令那個happy ending加強了說服力。主角在書的尾段說話中向別人承認了自己殺了的事實,但對自己是否定義為犯罪的看法上其實仍有點保留,這也許是作者要給讀者們思考的一些空間吧。

以平均2-3分鐘一頁的閱讀速度,花了兩星期時間終於看完這書。是時候換一本輕鬆點的書來平衡一下心態了。

《罪與罰》杜斯妥也夫斯著  - 閱後感 - 完 -

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以下是其他書籍分享文章連結:(*為個人特別推介) 

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科幻類別




文學類別

罪與罰》 Crime and Punishment 杜斯妥也夫斯著 - 以思想為戰場的故事

《呼蘭河傳》 蕭紅著 - 寫的是河也是人

《挪威的森林》村上春樹著 - 生死間的三角關係

*《傲慢與偏見》 珍.奧斯汀著 - 人性的兩大弱點(漂出)

《銀河鐵道之夜》 宮澤賢治著 - 談生死的童話故事(保留)

《魯迅散文選》 - 魯迅 著 (楊澤編)- 走進當代文人的世界 (保留)

*《圍城》錢鍾書著 - 沒有蕩氣迴腸、卻語重深長的愛情故事 (保留)

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2025年2月25日 星期二

Bangkok Trip 23/24 (5) - Palace on the River (Iconsiam)

 


It is a fantastic experience to wake up without alarm and not need to rush for breakfast. Sometimes a good travel experience is to go without an itinerary.

The air-conditioned shopping mall is a good choice in extremely hot Bangkok. But my experience from ten years ago told me that shopping malls in Bangkok have no highlights beside buying Wacoal. Therefore,  I don’t have high expectations for ICONSIAM, which was only opened in 2018 and is known as the most attractive floating market.

From Asok to ICONSIAM, the route recommended by Google Map is going by land and requires a transfer. In my opinion, the most convenient option is to go by following route:

- Go from Asok to Siam by BTS, transfer to the dark green line, get off at Saphan Taksin Station, exit and walk to Sathorn Pier. Then take the ICONSIAM shuttle boat. It won’t take much more time, but the itinerary is easy and special.

The difference between BTS and MRT. ASOK is BTS station, and tickets are in cards. Sukhumvit is MRT station, and tickets are black plastic coins. 

After exiting Saphan Taksin Station, walk straight for 1-2 minutes and you will arrive at Sathorn Pier. From this pier, you can take a boat to many popular attractions such as the Grand Palace, Temple Arun, and Asiatique. 
It is quite simple by showing the staff where you want to go and then buy the right ticket. There are several boat service providers in the same pier.
Among them, tourist boats are the most expensive. Youtubers often recommend taking boat in orange , which is cheaper and coer most popular attractions.
There is a dedicated line to Iconsiam, the charge is $10 baht per person.

The signal of Iconsiam can be seem easily.

Let's go!


Not many passengers during weekday noon time.

Asiatique is over there, but it is not the spot we visited in this 2023 tour. (But we have finally visited during 2024)


The boat ride takes about fifteen minutes.


The experience of landing and then entering the mall is very interesting

Do shopping malls float on water? Will there be a canal running through the mall? ICONSIAM, which uses the "floating market" as its selling point, made me a little bit fanciful. However, I felt a bit disappointed when I arrived. The "water" area in the mall is smaller than the canal at the Venetian Macau. Actually it is just a water pool.


Real scene of floating market

Actually it is an indoor mall. However, Iconsiam is worth for visit.

There is a food street on the ground floor, and its scale is unprecedented. The food prices are similar to those at night markets.

The food and beverage sold in market are juicy and yummy.



Very good facilities and an impressive toilet. If you are worried about the cleanliness of the toilets in night market, try this! 

The photo was taken from the second floor and it is just part of this,

In addition, the layout of the ICONSIAM shopping mall is also very large-scale. The height of the ground floor of the first floor is equivalent to the third or fourth floors of a general shopping mall. Staying inside also has an outdoor-like view. Coupled with the very high-end decoration, it is no wonder that it is loved by locals and tourists.


This shopping mall surprised me,,,,,,

Finally we spent in Iconsiam for around 5 hours for eating and shopping.

ICONSIAM is not only a shopping mall, but also an attraction definitely worth visiting again and again.


- To be continued - 


Next Chapter - 

Bangkok Trip 23/24 (6) - Another Side of the River - Asiatique The Riverfront

(Writing in Progress)

Bangkok 2023/2024

Bangkok Trip - Previous Articles






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Universal Studio Japan (Osaka) Part 6 - Harry Porter and His Magic Wand

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2025年2月21日 星期五

Bangkok Trip 23/24 (4) - Eat and Relax (Puponfai Food Delivery / Let's Relax Massage)

Afterward half-day shopping in JJ Market, it was a good idea to experience a Thai body massage to relax the muscles.


On the way back from Kamphaeng Phet to Sukhumvit , Mrs. Mak read the seafood delivery menu on her phone and she was going to prepare a simple but rich seafood feast.

Puponfai -  A seafood delivery company was recommended by many bloggers and friends - Considered the spacious hotel space in Bangkok, the hot weather, occasional heavy rain at night, and our tiredness and laziness, it would be great to arrange rich seafood delivered to the hotel.

You can also place orders online using IG and LINE. She made an appointment with PuponfaI at 3-4pm and it could be picked up at the hotel lobby at 6:30pm. Its price is similar to that of the night market.

My wife love durians in Thailand, but not me.

At 6:30 pm, the hotel receptionist notified us to go to the lobby to pick up the meal order (it was on time!). The delivery staff was wearing a soaked raincoat and holding the intact seafood package in his hand. As a consumer, I put my hands together with a bit of embarrassment and thankfulness.


It’s so rich. Let’s take a look at each one by one
Extra large shrimp...the key item which is not necessarily available every day. Tt's fresh and the shrimmeat is chewy.
Crab...creamy. But I don’t like eating things that I have to shell myself.
Mantis shrimp... tastes good but a little dry. But I like to eat things that I don’t have to shell myself, so it’s OK)

Below were other foods in the meal.


Let's start

After a rich meal, we went to Let's Relax for Thai Massage.
Above is the photo from Let's Relax official website

Let Relax is famous brand of Thai Massage in Thailand. Many of its branches are conveniently located. The 6/F of the Grande Centra Hotel where we stayed has a branch of Let's Relax that is connected to Terminal 21. The Terminal 21 store is always full due to its convenient location. Therefore, I pre-booked the 210-minute Heavenly Relax with Hot Compress for two people before we went to Bangkok. A three-hour massage for two people only costs HK$700, which is only about one-third of the price in Hong Kong. It is a great experience.


The environment of massage place is simple but comfortable. 
Reasonably Price for a shop located in shopping mall.

I have no plenty much idea to comment the skill of the massage therapists. But I really liked the feeling of the hot ironed vanilla ball rolling on my back, coupled with the stretching of my muscles and bones, Then I completed the first day's itinerary with a relaxed mood.
The first day of the trip ended with delicious mango rice.

- To be continued - 

Next Chapter - 
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2025年2月20日 星期四

Bangkok Trip 23/24 (3) - Unbeatable Shopping Spirit in Chatuchak Market (JJ Market)

We would like to enjoy our leisure time in Bangkok so our itinerary is not rush and tight. Meanwhile, Chatuchak Market (JJ Market) opens only from 9:00-18:00 during Saturdays and Sundays. We arrived in Bangkok on Sunday and this was the only day we can get there.

We arrived at the hotel at about 1 p.m. and set off immediately without having time to open the luggage compartment.
(Picture: There were not many people on that day...the temperature was 32 degrees "only"...not too hot)

It only takes half hour from Sukhumvit to Kamphaeng Phet (MRT Blue). As soon as you exit the station, you will find the clothing zone of the market. It is more convenient than taking the BTS and getting off at Mo Chit as you still need to walk for 5-10 minutes to the market.

In my opinion, the clothes sold near MRT stations are more attractive. Besides, that area are mainly air-condition equipped. On the contrary, the area near Mo Chit station is relatively dark, and most clothing stores sell second-hand goods of poor quality, which is not suitable for us.
(Remember - Don’t think that you have to get off at Chatuchak Park when going to Chatuchak. They are entirely different locations...)

Our friends warned us that the weather in Bangkok is extremely hot, and it is easy to be exhausted after 2 hours shopping. So I was well-prepared, fans, ice towels, and plenty of water, all ready in my backpack.


(Picture: I really like walking around the crisscrossing shops)

When I opened the travel book and looked at the market floorplan, I found that the area of ​​the market seemed smaller than several years before... my plan is to walk along the pink zone.

As a father for 2 kids, I have experience in bringing two toddlers for journey, carrying six milk bottles for each, eight diapers and several packs of wet wipes. 
Therefore, I have developed good endurance and it didn't matter to shop in hot weather for several hours.

Before we go, let’s look back at the experience of first arriving here 12 years ago!
Chatuchak Market 2011

(The article in Chinese only)

When I first visited Chatuchak in 2011, the temperature in the shop passages wsa very high. By this time, the shopping atmosphere was still there, but the passages seem to be neater than before, and many zones are air-conditioned. Therefore, the feeling is much better now and the temperature was not as hot as expected. 

The change is not only environment, but the sizes of the clothes sold. In my memory, many stores used to sell clothes that were only up to L-size in the past. However, the size ranged from XXS to XXXL. 

These changes are very suitable for me when I become fat. L? I dare to buy if there is one "STIKE" on top of L.


I bought two T-shirt with anime character that can’t be found in Hong Kong in this store. They cost around HKD 100 and the quality is good. Unfortunately, there are no children size.


This hot dog - order first and then make. You only pays during pick. I like this arrangement.

Unfortunately, there was uneven road surface. My wife accidentally fell down when she was in a trance. Her ankle immediately swelled up and she got hurt after just 30 minutes of shopping.

"I feel pain..." After sitting and resting for a while, she was able to get up again and continue shopping. She was really tough!!!
My wife got injured when she went to buy coconut smoothie. After sitting down and eat, she was able to endure the pain and continue her itinerary...

"Her morale has overcome her pain," I talked to myself.

For me, I even put the ice towel and fan back into my backpack even if I was sweating. It is more relaxing to has two hands free during shopping.
As a coffee lover, I really like Tik Cafe’s Coconut Expresso... The bitterness of the Expresso does not conflict with the coconut aroma. There were comfortable seats inside Tik Cafe, which I highly recommend. 

In the end, we walked for almost 4 hours and also visited the nearby JJ Plaza before we went back. (JJ Plaza was not attractive so it can be skipped.)

It was 5:30 so we have to go back earlier for other activities.

- To be continued - 

Next Chapter - 


Bangkok 2023/2024

Bangkok Trip - Previous Articles







Universal Studio Japan (Osaka) 1 - Basic Information and Some Tips for your journey

Universal Studio Japan (Osaka) 2 - Preparation with Kids



Universal Studio Japan (Osaka) Part 6 - Harry Porter and His Magic Wand

Universal Studio Japan (Osaka) Part 7 - Our Forbidden Journey

Universal Studio Japan (Osaka) 8 - Universal Wonderland and Others